Sunday, April 12, 2009
I just loved this picture so much
I couldn't resist. We, obviously didn't plan it this way, but the yellow in her hair and on her dress was so cute next to Grandma's daffodils while egg hunting.
Happy Easter!!
Another Easter gone. It was a good day...not overly nice outside, but good. Church was nice. They had different music that I really enjoyed. For some reason, I got kind of overwhelmed at some point in mass. I can't remember if it was the music or just something Father was saying at the time. I just kind of felt very blessed....VERY blessed...all at once thinking about last year at Easter and Brian was barely walking again and this year we're waiting for our 5th blessing. God truly is amazing. I never, in a million years, saw my life this way. Not in a million.
Here are some pictures of the kids from today.
Here are some pictures of the kids from today.
Friday, April 10, 2009
Baby, baby, baby
Nothing like a labor that's very short. Problem is you don't know how long it will actually be, so what do you do?
So far, I've spent the last month, since finding out we have a son, doing plenty of paperwork. Signatures, notaries, copies of birth certificates, you name it, we've done it! Tomorrow, I'm sending our official acceptance Fed Ex, back to the agency. It won't leave for Korea until 4/20 due to their schedule, but this will give them plenty of time to check it for errors. I got it all scanned and copies tonight, which felt really good. After we go to immigration next week, we should have no more paperwork. We will have officially done about 3-4 months of paperwork in 1 month! This paperwork ends up being about 3 inches thick when you're through with it. Really amazing when you get through it all.
As far as getting ready for Jaemin, we're getting there. We're still working on the big boy's new room. We're going to have to pay to get some help so we can get it done in time. Only so much you can do when you both work and have 4 kids. We have the basics of what we need, so we'll be okay. Our friends are letting us borrow their crib mattress. We still, amazingly, have the crib. I was just about to sell it at this month's rummage sale. I left a booster with tray at mom's, so we're getting that back until Brian can make a bench to go with the table we have. We're slowly getting some clothes. I have a whole rough tote now. I went rummage saling for some and some girls at work have brought in some. He has PLENTY of toys! Another girl at work is having her son bring home some clothes from her niece's 2 year old in May. Someone else at work bought us a diaper bag. It was actually the one I'd been eyeing at Kmart, so that was pretty cool. She filled it with receiving blankets, socks, bottles and nipples. We have enough to get by now. I think the only thing I'll have to, eventually, get is clothes that will fit at this age, more socks, diapers, wipes, blah, blah, blah. :)
Once we get the boys moved out, paint and carpet Jaemin's room and buy a dresser or chest for Jae we can get the clothes out and figure out what we still need. We should have around 2-3 months to do this.
We'll get it done......eventually.
Lisa
So far, I've spent the last month, since finding out we have a son, doing plenty of paperwork. Signatures, notaries, copies of birth certificates, you name it, we've done it! Tomorrow, I'm sending our official acceptance Fed Ex, back to the agency. It won't leave for Korea until 4/20 due to their schedule, but this will give them plenty of time to check it for errors. I got it all scanned and copies tonight, which felt really good. After we go to immigration next week, we should have no more paperwork. We will have officially done about 3-4 months of paperwork in 1 month! This paperwork ends up being about 3 inches thick when you're through with it. Really amazing when you get through it all.
As far as getting ready for Jaemin, we're getting there. We're still working on the big boy's new room. We're going to have to pay to get some help so we can get it done in time. Only so much you can do when you both work and have 4 kids. We have the basics of what we need, so we'll be okay. Our friends are letting us borrow their crib mattress. We still, amazingly, have the crib. I was just about to sell it at this month's rummage sale. I left a booster with tray at mom's, so we're getting that back until Brian can make a bench to go with the table we have. We're slowly getting some clothes. I have a whole rough tote now. I went rummage saling for some and some girls at work have brought in some. He has PLENTY of toys! Another girl at work is having her son bring home some clothes from her niece's 2 year old in May. Someone else at work bought us a diaper bag. It was actually the one I'd been eyeing at Kmart, so that was pretty cool. She filled it with receiving blankets, socks, bottles and nipples. We have enough to get by now. I think the only thing I'll have to, eventually, get is clothes that will fit at this age, more socks, diapers, wipes, blah, blah, blah. :)
Once we get the boys moved out, paint and carpet Jaemin's room and buy a dresser or chest for Jae we can get the clothes out and figure out what we still need. We should have around 2-3 months to do this.
We'll get it done......eventually.
Lisa
Monday, April 6, 2009
We have a referral!
It's the official referral. They expected it by 5/1, so this was great news! We're getting everything taken care of this week, hopefully. Then the paperwork will be off to Korea. Once we get his legals and can finish up with immigration we'll really be on our way. Could be as early as June or as late as September. We're hoping for July!
We got a picture too and he's too cute! I'll post that after we get our acceptance off to Korea.
Thanks to one of the local bank employees (who's staying late), we're getting our papers notarized quickly. Hopefully, I have enough time after work to really go through the paperwork and get things in order and ready before we get notarized.
We're getting closer Jaemin!!
BTW, you know what's super funny is I called my mil for something and also told her we had his referral and I was in the middle of packing things up to send to him when I told her what we'd gotten him. We'd gotten him a little blanket animal and then I bought a 2nd to keep at home in case his foster mother didn't send this one back with him. She told me how she'd already gotten him and then was telling me about it. We bought the exact same one. So now Jaemin has 3! One for Korea, one to bring home and one to keep at daycare.
Mom
We got a picture too and he's too cute! I'll post that after we get our acceptance off to Korea.
Thanks to one of the local bank employees (who's staying late), we're getting our papers notarized quickly. Hopefully, I have enough time after work to really go through the paperwork and get things in order and ready before we get notarized.
We're getting closer Jaemin!!
BTW, you know what's super funny is I called my mil for something and also told her we had his referral and I was in the middle of packing things up to send to him when I told her what we'd gotten him. We'd gotten him a little blanket animal and then I bought a 2nd to keep at home in case his foster mother didn't send this one back with him. She told me how she'd already gotten him and then was telling me about it. We bought the exact same one. So now Jaemin has 3! One for Korea, one to bring home and one to keep at daycare.
Mom
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Exhausted....
I think that speaks for both of us. Brian's been home all week with Kaelin. She started running a temp last Saturday. Monday he brought her to the doctor because her kindergarten class has been running Influenza B through the class and we wanted her tested. The nurse practioner didn't seem to think it was necesary and didn't do it. So, now, today, Kaelin is still sick after 5 days and Chelsi has it. We got her in and made them run the test and she tested positive. So we now have meds for Chelsi, Cole and Chase so hopefully Chelsi's won't last as long and the boys won't get it at all. I'm FURIOUS at that nurse for thinking she could charge us $25 to tell us it was a virus....REALLY, no kidding?! The flu generally is! We wanted to protect the other 3. We didn't need Chelsi getting it for sure. With the high temps Kae was running Chelsi would risk another febrile seizure. So, now we're having to medicate her 'round the clock to keep her from spiking to fast. I picked the girls up from Brian around 4:30 after he took them to the doctor. He then went after the meds. He came home at 8:00 pm! Waited in line at one pharmacy for an hour to be told they were out and then went to another and had to wait over an hour to fill. Luckily, while he's been home with sick little Kae, he's been able to work on the boys' room, but he's now at a point he has to wait on others in order to go any further.
We also found out we can't file our I600A without home study. So we had to cancel our appointment. And the worker who's been processing that office's I600's for years (and was quite great at it/quick) passed away last week. I'd just received an email from her two days before she died. So sad. She was quite young. So who knows how slow and delayed that office will be without her.
It's going to be a long, long process!
Lisa
We also found out we can't file our I600A without home study. So we had to cancel our appointment. And the worker who's been processing that office's I600's for years (and was quite great at it/quick) passed away last week. I'd just received an email from her two days before she died. So sad. She was quite young. So who knows how slow and delayed that office will be without her.
It's going to be a long, long process!
Lisa
Monday, March 30, 2009
We're getting closer to the money to finish the adoption.
We have been trying our best to come up with every way to pay for this adoption without putting our family at risk. We know we're probably in better shape than some families, but we had not planned on a fifth child or third adoption. And, of course, we'll do anything to bring our son home. We have some money in savings today, we're getting more out of our home by refinancing and cashing out what we responsibly can. Today we received some additional assistance from someone.
We had already hoped to go to Korea when the girls were older, just the girls and I. Now that someone has to go anyways to get JaeMin we felt this would be our one and only trip to Korea. We cannot leave the girls behind. They've had their hearts set on Korea for a long time. After we decided to go, we realized we couldn't leave the boys behind either. This alone will cost approximately $10,000 if we can get inexpensive tickets and some rooms at SWS' guest house. We expect the adoption to cost almost $41,000 with everything, including finalization afterward. Some money has to be spent to build a small bedroom in our basement garage for the older boys and JaeMin will have a room of his own; the girls share a room as well. Some money we'll need because I don't have enough leave time to take what I need with JaeMin and will need money to cover the leave without pay I'll take for him. The adoption alone, will deplete our savings, monetary gift we received and equity out of our home with nothing left.
Even with this...nothing left....we know there have been too many signs for this to be wrong. I tried to ignore them the first couple of days or so, but everytime I thought there was no way we could God showed me differently. It was me who had to be shown. Brian believed all along. God really did work in this. We can both see it. And now we're just a couple thousand $$ short of being able to do everything we need. That's amazing!
Lisa
We had already hoped to go to Korea when the girls were older, just the girls and I. Now that someone has to go anyways to get JaeMin we felt this would be our one and only trip to Korea. We cannot leave the girls behind. They've had their hearts set on Korea for a long time. After we decided to go, we realized we couldn't leave the boys behind either. This alone will cost approximately $10,000 if we can get inexpensive tickets and some rooms at SWS' guest house. We expect the adoption to cost almost $41,000 with everything, including finalization afterward. Some money has to be spent to build a small bedroom in our basement garage for the older boys and JaeMin will have a room of his own; the girls share a room as well. Some money we'll need because I don't have enough leave time to take what I need with JaeMin and will need money to cover the leave without pay I'll take for him. The adoption alone, will deplete our savings, monetary gift we received and equity out of our home with nothing left.
Even with this...nothing left....we know there have been too many signs for this to be wrong. I tried to ignore them the first couple of days or so, but everytime I thought there was no way we could God showed me differently. It was me who had to be shown. Brian believed all along. God really did work in this. We can both see it. And now we're just a couple thousand $$ short of being able to do everything we need. That's amazing!
Lisa
Saturday, March 28, 2009
More Baby Stuff and Paperwork Fury
Today Chelsi and I went rummage saling. We found a lot of clothes for Jaemin. We still don't really have any summer stuff, but that's harder to buy until he gets home because that's what he'll wear right away. Of course, we got him a Cardinals shirt at one! He's got some shoes to grow into too. Chelsi picked out a bunch of Baby Einstein and Usborne toys and books. They were all .25 and in great condition! So excited, but we missed out on the crib mattress we really needed.
After that Chelsi, Kaelin and I put together the little scrapbook we have to send to our agency with pictures of us and our life. The girls colored it and designed the pages. It looks great. I have done at least two months of paperwork in the last week. Fast and furious we're preparing as quickly as we can and anticipating what pictures, forms, letters, etc. anyone may need and getting them ahead so we can get our son here.
Lisa
After that Chelsi, Kaelin and I put together the little scrapbook we have to send to our agency with pictures of us and our life. The girls colored it and designed the pages. It looks great. I have done at least two months of paperwork in the last week. Fast and furious we're preparing as quickly as we can and anticipating what pictures, forms, letters, etc. anyone may need and getting them ahead so we can get our son here.
Lisa
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