Float Trip 2007

I swear these things get to be more fun every year!  This is our family.

It was Kae's first and she had a great time!  We got on the water about 10:00 and I think we were back about 3:00 or so.  We had some nice long stop breaks in between so the kids could stretch their legs and the adults could soak and cool off.

We had about 8 kids on the trip this year and they all had a good time.  Even the newest little ones.

Here are some pictures:

The boys getting ready to leave.



Cole rode with his Godfather and his wife. (hope you don't mind guys)

 

Kae and Chase road with us.  (Yes dad smokes those nasty Swishers when he hunts and fishes.)



BREAK TIME!! 



After the float trip we retired to Jay and Shannon's for the annual frog/fish fry.  YUM!!!!

Happy 4th!!!

We didn't spend the 4th of July like most folks.  It doesn't work well to have a 10 yo, 7 yo, 5 yo and 2 yo out past 9:00 to watch firewords on a weeknight.  We took it easy that day and spent the day in the pool and got out the 2 year old waterslide that's been in the closet, still in the original package.  That's what happens when you get something on clearance at the end of the season and forget constantly.  Needless to say, our kids will get to see firewords.  We're going floating this weekend with the older 3 and afteward we'll go to a fish/frog fry and shoot off the fireworks the.  The kids CANNOT wait! 

Here are our action pics from the fourth.



















 Chelsi's been having a true sense of wanting to grow up a little too fast....at least for mommy.  She wants to wear goggles like big brothers and sister and now she wants waterwings on and lets go to swim by herself.  What happened?!

Country livin’

Doesn't everyone want that?

Not on days when you have to be somewhere and that's when one of the local farmers decide to haul something with their tractor taking the main route to town and NOT moving over for traffic.  In most cases around here people are kind and if they're blocking or really holding up traffic they turn off the road for a bit.  Not this dude!  He decided to stay there so that what should have been a 15 minute drive turned into a 30 minute drive going 20 in a 60.  It's so frustrating.  You can't even vent in the car because you have your little ones with you.  That makes it worse.

One of the few times living out here stinks!

Keep on keepin’ on

If you don't at first succeed, try, try again.  So I am writing immigration, two Senators and a Congressman hoping they will try to help international adoptive families.  It kind of stinks that kids that come in on IR3 Visas automatically get Certificate of Citizenship (which they should) while kids that come to the United States on IR4 Visas have to go through a lot of unnecessary beauracratic tape to get that certificate.  It's the fact that the families have to apply for it.  That's totally understandable since the child that comes here is not legally adopted until they're in the U.S., but once we adopt them we should have to do no more than fill out the application, pay a small processing charge (ahem, not $430) and show the adoption decree finalizing the adoption.  That should be it.  No, each immigration office, deciding who should have to or not have to come in, in person, to receive that certificate that, by law, our children deserve.  They should just each mail them to the children upon approval of the application.  It's such a consistent inconsistency with USCIS.

I'm hoping someone in our government will attempt to help families out there.  It won't benefit us, but I'm hoping it will benefit others.

If you're reading this and you too are an adoptive family or know one, write your D.C. elected officials and get someone to take this up.  Tell them to look at change for the Child Citizenship Act and regulation of USCIS for Certificates of Citizenship for internationally adopted children.

REALLY! One piece of paper.

After many, many months of trying to find some elected official to help us get immigration to mail our daughter's certificate of citizenship our congressman wrote us a letter with an attached letter from immigration stating we needed to drive several hours, stay for 5 minutes and pick up a piece of paper that our child has every right to.

Here's a snapshot of the Citizenship Act of 2000:

House passes Delahunt child citizenship bill

    “WASHINGTON, D.C. — After months of negotiations, the House approved legislation authored by Congressman Bill Delahunt to confer automatic US citizenship on children adopted from abroad, and on other foreign-born children of American parents.
   “The Delahunt bill would eliminate the need for these families to undergo the bureaucratic naturalization process.  This is especially important for families that have already completed the exhaustive documentation required to adopt a child from overseas.
   "After what these parents have been through in bringing their children to the United States, the naturalization process is an extra burden they shouldn't have to bear," Delahunt said.  "Once the adoption is finalized and a child arrives in the US, that child is an American and should be treated as an American."
   “The bill would grant automatic citizenship to all foreign-born children who are under 18 years of age; admitted to the United States as lawful permanent residents; and in the legal and physical custody of at least one parent who is a US citizen.  Parents would no longer be required to submit an application to have their children naturalized.

However, because our daughter's adoption was finalized on U.S. soil in U.S. courts she doesn't automatically get hers.  I think Washington left something out there.  Instead we have to pay hundreds of dollars and then drive several hours to pick it up, in person.  BTW, most other states have realized how crazy it is when the parents are originally U.S. citizens and we've already jumped every other hoop they had to adopt our foreign-born children, that they'be heavily begun mailing them....except ours!  It's really sad when I could give a whole list of names of people and they USCIS offices they used who got their either mailed automatically after approval of application (which shouldn't be necessary anyways) or upon request.  Why does our office have to be such @$!!heads!

On top of that I only got one elected official to even attempt helping us....it was a sad attempt (they just asked...same as I did), but it was an attempt nonetheless.  Senator Kit Bond's office has absolutely NOTHING to be proud of.  They don't return phone calls, emails NOTHING!  They don't even "attempt" to help.  Great public servent!!!!!!!  BTW, you suck!

Score!

I scored awesomely!  I FINALLY went to the doctor to get my cholesterol checked this week.  I haven't had it checked in 15 years!  When I did it back then it wasn't one of the fasting kind and it was 201....I was 18 years old!  So not good.

This week I had the fasting test and it was 165.  That's more than just reasonable.  I was so happy to hear that.  I thought I scored awesomely!

What identity?

I'm not really sure just how to title this one.  I was watching "Jon & Kate Plus 8" last night and seeing their girls makes me wonder what our girls will be like even at the young age of 6.  When I see other Asian children with their biological families that look like them, or at least one parent does, I can't help but think and be reminded of how hard it might be for our girls one day when they really realize they don't look like us.  I think they know it to some degree, but they're so young yet, I don't think they've really thought about it.

It doesn't bother us, obviously, but I worry how much it could bother them one day.  I pray we do enough as parents to make our children (all four) feel good in the skin their in and as happy as possible.

I know as parents we'll never do everything right (according to our kids anyways) for all of our children, but we want to and try to try so hard to do what we think is best.  Reading and researching what's best, but when it all comes down it's on your parent instincts.  I just pray God leads us to do be the best parents we can be with our 4 blessings.