Jaemin's attaching quite nicely. We spend a LOT of time on the floor all day, then dad takes over part of the night so I can get some stuff done and feel productive still. Then, when he can't I carry him on my back. When we make our Walmart runs he rides on the front and falls asleep in the store every time. :) We're somewhat getting on a schedule. At least he takes a decent mid-day nap now and sometimes takes a 20 minute here and there on either side of that nap. He gets in bed at the same time every night now, which is nice. Just shortly after the others go to bed. I think it helps him to see everyone else go to bed as the house goes dim. He doesn't fight it like he did. He cries, sometimes, but not often and doesn't hit and scratch like he was in the beginning. You could definitely tell the first two weeks or so were full-on grieving. When he was tired, I think that's when he missed his foster mother most. I heard him say omma over the weekend. Omma is mother in Korean. I wasn't sure if he was saying it to me or not until we went to visit grandma's daycare. She had him and he reached for me and was repeating it. He finally called me omma. The girls never did, but coming home 3 months younger they were barely even saying it in Korea. He was already saying a couple of things. I've heard him says mama from time-to-time too. That's not me. It means eat! He doesn't say that any longer, you just have to read his mind when he's hungry. :) He's sort of picky, but for the most part likes orange veggies. We're moving onto solids as soon as the baby food is gone. He wants what's on our plates anyways, so we've been trialing some things here and there.
He really has become a huggy boy. If I pick him up and put him against my shoulders, he hugs me and then sits there and plays with my hair very sweetly. He likes to lean his face to mine or lay his face to my lips while I give him little butterfly kisses on his cheek. He's become very cuddly, which was definitely not the boy I came home with. He pushed to get down and roam. Really didn't want held too often. I thought he was just busy at 9 months and crawling, but held him a lot anyways and now he likes to be held. I think he's really beginning to trust. Now we just have to keep building and keep that trust. He still wakes a couple of times a night, maybe more. It's usually not too bad. Usually you just have to go put paci in and he nods back off. This morning he was AWAKE at 4:30. Wah, that was rough. Hopefully, tomorrow is better. But, I've been working on his schedule. We're trying to get more on a schedule that will work when I return to work. So he's not used to me getting him up by 7 am. That may have thrown him yesterday. We'll see, I guess.
Anyways, that's my little man for now.
Lisa
